“One of the delights known to age, and beyond the grasp of youth, is that of Not Going.” J.B. Priestly Not going to parties. You do not need to be popular. Not going shopping. You do not need to look fashionable. Not going traveling. You do not have to see for yourself what Russia looks like or how the Chinese behave. You can stay home and relax into the enjoyment of peace and your own thoughts.